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2011年8月2日星期二

I found my son dancing to Beyonce?

-It was the Diva song? He says he just feels a real connection with girls and loves dancing.



What should I do?So I'm guessing he's young? Let him be, he'll figure out himself what he's attracted to. Don't bring it up but casually tell him how its okay to like boys, even if he is one. There is also potential that he is just one of those fun loving guys everyone loves, and doesn't mind dancing to chick songs with the girls! He may even be just a little metro. Don't jump to conclusions with this, just love your son for who he is.
Hey,

There's nothing wrong with this! Loads of boys enjoy dancing, and he may just enjoy Beyonce's songs and dancing to it, it's just the same as a girl playing on a video game that boys usually play really, if he enjoys himself then there's nothing wrong with it.

I'm assuming you mean "what should I do if he's gay", well nothing! It might just be that he enjoys dancing, just because he likes Beyonce and dancing to her songs it doesn't mean that he is gay. Loads of men enjoy dancing, and they're not gay. Even male Ballet dancers!

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Nothing. It doesn't really matter if he likes Beyonce and dances to her singing. If your son ends up being gay, so be it, but many boys can be straight and like to dance. I'm not sure about the connection with girls thing, maybe he's just messing around. Maybe he's going through that curious stage every boy goes through. Just let it be.
big deal he likes to dance whats the problem with that ive got 2 mates who have girlfriends and they love to dance to beyonce songs and they love to dance to the single ladies dont judge him 2 soon there are loads of other boys who love to dance it doesnt have to be macho man songs it can be all different types. doesnt make your son or other men gay
The Answer is based on u

1)If u can accept him no matter what he turns out, let him be.

2)If u are quite insecure about it, try talking to him. Communication always solves family problem. He might just be a natural music and dancing fan, nothing malicious about that.



Well those 2 are the answers I can think of, hope I help
and? i love dancing and most of the things i dance are girly. it does not mean anything. seriously, it's like saying; ''my daughter like to play Call of duty, what should i do?'' he likes to dance so he dance. most dances with guys in them are either break dance or hip hop or rap (which i really don't like, but hey those are my own personal tastes) so i dance pop, para para and guess what? most of them are ''girl songs''. so it should not affect you in any way.
Accept it. I DO NOT suggest asking him if he is attracted to men, he will tell you on his own. I do suggest signing him up for dance classes, you could sign him up for jazz, ballet, hip-hop, tap, maybe even lyrical! take him to a dance studio and have him chose hat he likes best.
A person can dance to anything they want to, it doesn't mean anything. That would be like saying... I like to play Halo instead of some stupid girlie game. If it turns out he's going for the other side. Oh well, unless you are one of the super christian, hates everyone who's not straight kind of people.
Scorched Earth !! destroy everything: break the cd/ipod and search his room for more of that horrid disease of music. then create a large fire in the back yard and burn all traces of the virus and have your son taken to a therapist.
Show him this dance.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n53xHnfwY5s&sns=em he'll change.
Nothing, haha.

He just likes it.

And if he's gay, so be it.

Or are you one of those parents who would actually punish their child because of their sexual preference?
he can dance if he wants to, he can leave his friends behind

cause his friends dont dance and if they dont dance then theirrrrrr no friends of mine

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He's just having fun i think..There all alot of guys who dance to women dances and yeah it's only because they think it's fun :D This doesn't mean he's gay (:
Dont treat him differently,and be there for him on an emotional level.
Well if your straight up ( like me )

Ask him if he's attracted to men...

Lol sorry this is just the way I handle things in life

Put him in a hip hop dance class
nothing. so what if he likes a bit of beyonce, we all do :) i wouldn't jump to any conclusions.

Hope this helped x
There's nothing wrong with dancing to beyonce :)
Same thing happened to my son. He's gay now.
Be supporting so he will be able to talk to u
who carers , let him be

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